Senin, 16 April 2012

Me and Jersey bola

I have a story (which I think is) interesting. This story is a personal experience. You could say writing is a little vent. As long as can still vent. This story is about me and an old shirt or football jersey. Juventus away shirt is 1999/2000 under the name Inzaghi number 9.

I have a hobby that may be less common among the general public. Often considered too strange to many people. I have a hobby of looking for the old football jersey and seem scarce. A long time here in the sense that starting last year until the long, sometimes looking for the names of certain players who could be said to be a legend. In addition to looking through a few stalls selling some old costumes, we also sometimes change clothes. Often we find construction workers, rickshaw drivers, carpenters park dressed like that, and we would approach and proposes to exchange clothes. Since it is also said one of the sellers that we know, "Money can be searched, jersey rare hard to find." At first I was also looking for a variety of clubs and players, but I changed my search. I'm now just trying to collect a jersey Juventus and Italy. But if anyone looks very rare, and there is a high historical value, it is ready to bid. In the world of old school jersey, we also know the auction system. Some of the sales by auction, other than by way of bargaining. Average selling jersey this kind of online. The average through Kaskus or Facebook.

Aja deh straight story. I have an acquaintance in a kiosk that provides the old jersey. At one point he offered me the Juventus away jersey 1999/2000 Inzaghi number 9. I myself do not have a jersey that was, and was looking for. Anyway I do not have a jersey with the name of any Inzaghi, and I really look for. He opened the price of 110 thousand yen. He said if the price is fixed, because this deposit from his friend, and plans that jersey will be auctioned. I counted, and felt the price was too high. I was invited to by putting it lightly. When traveling to the house, I think about my rejection. Because then I think, the price usually go to auction 90 thousand, and the multiple bids is 9 thousand. Such experience, if Juventus jersey auctioned, usually crowded. Two times the bid has reached 108 thousand. I later regretted, because if I win the auction until the price was more expensive than 110 thousand.

OK, sorry means nothing. Already a risk down the offer. Finally I had come to jersey auction as well as through Facebook. I started to make a bid. But suddenly there I was busy and could not monitor the progress. Auction in shanties are usually for two weeks after the first offer. Right at the last day of bidding, I will bid.When the price has reached 136 thousand. But was surprised when I saw a comment that eagles jersey is already closed, and declare one user as the winners jersey.

I was trying to ask the stall owner, and apparently there is some mistake. But I still ask the seller remains in his decision, because he had to cancel. At least this incident could be a correction for him. We also have to say about each other and understand each other, whereas if it changes its decision, may be its image in the eyes of other users who know him can not be damaged. I was not troubled in the end did not get the jersey, even though there is disappointment of course. But I was later realized that this was because the first refusing risikoku offer, and maybe it was not jodohku jersey. I also am trying to maintain the professionalism of my partner's professional and owner of the stall.

Events were not too into my thinking then. regret that there was trying to be resisted by the thought that it was risks. But suddenly when I was chatting jersey and sellers, all of a sudden it was revealed that the winning bidder to cancel the auction deal. The second highest bidder was later contacted have not returned.Until finally I was offered a jersey, and he mentioned the price to the price when he first offered me, 110 thousand, because no one seemed interested in quickly, while the goods are entrusted his friend. Finally a few days later I paid in full, and I'm looking for the jersey in my hand.

When I finally get the jersey, I then think about the adage, "If the match is not where". There may be various obstacles and barriers, but when we are seeking in good faith, and if not forced, there is a way and reward for what we are doing it. If you think realistically, it must be difficult. I admit too hard to not get a receipt when realized in the first jersey. But I'm sure I could handle it, and we'll smile about it.

Due to promiscuity

High incidence of human disease Immunodeficiany Virus / Acquired Immnune Deficiency Syndrome (HIV / AIDS), particularly in the age group of teenagers, one of the causes due bebas.Hasil association study in 12 cities in Indonesia including the London show 10-31% unmarried adolescents have been sexual intercourse.

In the city of Denpasar 633 Upper Level Secondary School students (high school) who had grade II, 155 people or 23.4% had sexual experience.

They comprised 27% of men and women 18%. National statistics on HIV / AIDS in Indonesia showed that approximately 75% of the body affected by the loss of immunity in adolescence.

Similarly, teens against drug abuse problems getting the data memprihatinkan.Berdasarkan people with HIV / AIDS in Bali to February 2005 recorded 623 people, most of the attacks the most productive age. Patients consisted of one person aged 5-14 years, 21 people aged 15-19 years, 352 people aged 20-29 years, 30-39 years of age 185 people, aged 40-49 years 52 men and 50 years and over one .

increasingly concerned about people living with HIV / AIDS suggests that, quite a lot of reproductive health problems that arise among adolescents. Therefore develop a model center of information and consultation through the adolescent reproductive health educator (counselor) peers are very important.

"The Center of information and consultation of adolescent reproductive health to be a model of community empowerment which aims to raise awareness and provide solutions to the individual participation of peers who experience reproductive health problems".

Management training was attended by 24 participants representatives from eight districts and one city in Bali last for four days.

Not long ago there was news about the desire of a group of people that legalized abortion, with the pretext of upholding human rights. This occurs because each year increase in cases of abortion in Indonesia is increasing, as evidenced by coverage in the media or any TV show there must be revealed cases of abortion.If this is the sec-legalkan occurring in Western countries will result in damage to the fabric of religion, culture and customs of the nation. Meaning has been lost moral values and norms that have long been ingrained in society. If this is dilegal it will push to further promiscuity in society.

One need not be married to have sex. While the release of the responsibility of pregnancy can be solved by abortion. Legalization of abortion is not just reproductive health issues locally Indonesia, but it's been one of coercive secular capitalist lifestyle is propagated through the United Nations ICDP (International Conference on Development and Population) in 1994 in Cairo Egypt.

Basically a woman who had an abortion will experience; suffering loss of self-esteem (82%), hysterical (51%), repeated nightmares about the baby (63%), suicide (28%), caught in a drug illicit drugs (41%), and can not enjoy sexual intercourse (59%).

Abortion or abortion means the termination content or intentionally discard the fetus before its time, (before it can be born naturally). Abortion is divided into two;

First, abortion is abortion spontaneus happens by accident. cause, weak content, lack of stamina due to excessive activity, wrong diet and poisoning.

Second, abortion is induced abortion provocatus. Deliberate intention is that a pregnant woman accidentally abortionist / fetus either by itself or with the help of others because they do not want the presence of the fetus.

Risk of Abortion
Abortion has risks of prolonged suffering to the health or safety of a woman's life.Not true to say that someone who had an abortion she "did not feel anything and can go home immediately."

This is a very misleading information for every woman, especially those who are confused because they do not want a pregnancy that has occurred. Health risks to women who have abortions are at risk of health and physical safety and psychological disorders.

In the book "Facts of Life" written by Brian Clowes, PhD; physical health and safety risks to be faced by a woman during an abortion and after an abortion is;
- Sudden death due to severe bleeding.
- Sudden death due to anesthesia failed.
- A slow death due to serious infection around the womb.
- A torn uterus (Uterine Perforation).
- Damage to the cervix (Cervical Lacerations) which will cause defects in subsequent children.
- Breast cancer (due to an imbalance of estrogen in women),
- Ovarian Cancer (Ovarian Cancer).
- Cancer of the cervix (Cervical Cancer).
- Liver cancer (Liver Cancer).
- Abnormalities in the placenta / umbilical cord (Placenta Previa) which will lead to subsequent defects in children and severe bleeding during future pregnancies.
- Being infertile / unable to have children again (ectopic pregnancy).
- Infection of the pelvis (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease).
- Infection of the lining of the uterus (endometriosis)

The process of abortion is not just a process that has a high risk in terms of health and safety of a woman physically, but also has a very great impact on a woman's mental state. This phenomenon is known in psychology as "Post-Abortion Syndrome" (Post-Abortion Syndrome) or PAS. These symptoms are noted in the "Psychological Reactions Reported After Abortion" in the publication of The Post-Abortion Review.

Therefore very important to note in this case the special attention of parents of teenagers is to be able to provide sex education is good and right. And give the teens a significant emphasis meyampaikan way: if you have sex, they should be ready to bear all the risks that pregnancy and venereal disease.

But we realize, people (parents) are still looking taboo to provide education, guidance to the child's sex. Though this will result in teens seeking information from outside is not necessarily the truth of the sex thing.

Pancasila values
A study conducted by research firm Synovate on behalf of DKT International Indonesia conducted research on sexual behavior of adolescents aged 14-24 years. Research conducted on 450 adolescents from Medan, Jakarta, Bandung and Surabaya.

The results revealed that 64% of teens admit to consciously engage in premarital sex and had violated the values and religious norms. But that awareness did not influence the actions and their sexual behavior. The reason teenagers have sex is because they just happen without a plan.

The study also describes the teens do not have a specific and comprehensive knowledge about sex. Information about sex (65%) they got through a friend, Film Porno (35%), school (19%), and parents (5%). From this percentage can be seen that the dominant information from friends more than parents and teachers, but friends do not really know with this sex problem, because he also transformed from a friend the other.

Less parental attention, lack of cultivation of religious values have an impact on teenage promiscuity and result in easily perform sexual intercourse outside of marriage resulting in pregnancy and the condition of unpreparedness to settle down and be responsible to pass an abortion. A woman tends to do more daring (dementia) when faced with something like this.

At present these modren times, teens are exposed to conditions of value systems, and then the system is eroded by other value systems that conflict with moral and religious values. As lingerie model (fashion), model the association and the movies that are so intense teenage promiscuity adopted into their life style including the matter of sex outside marriage is considered one of reasonableness.

A few factors that lead to promiscuity among teenagers, namely;
First, the factor of religion and faith.
Secondly, environmental factors such as parents, friends, neighbors and the media.
Third, the lack of knowledge plus excessive curiosity.
Fourth, change the Age.

The value of Religion
Word of God: "And kill not your children for fear of being destitute. It is we who give sustenance to them and to you too. Surely killing them is great sin. "(Sura 17:31). Many young mothers reasoned that because the income is still not stable or not enough savings, then he is planning for an abortion.

Though the verse is already clear that the provision is a matter for God, while men were told to try. Killing one life is tantamount to killing all people. Save one life is tantamount to save everyone.

Islam gives a huge reward sin against abortionists. Word of God: "He who kills a man, not for reasons that require Qisas law, or rather because of unrest in the world, then as if he had killed all mankind. And whoever cares for the safety of a human life, it is as if he had to maintain the safety of all human life. "(Surah 5:32)

Therefore, abortion is murder, murder means the crime and fight against God's command. The Quran states: "The punishment of those who do mischief against Allah and His Messenger and create a disaster unrest in the land is: execution, or crucifixion, or cut the hands and legs are crossed, or exile from the community.Such punishment as an affront to them in the world and the hereafter, they have a grievous penalty. "(Surah 5:36)

Juridical Value / Legal
In the Book of Criminal Law Indonesia Chapter XIV of the crimes against decency Article 229 paragraph (1) said that abortion is the deliberate act on the acts themselves or ask for help in others considered a criminal act punishable by a maximum of 4 years imprisonment or a fine maximum of three thousand dollars.

Subsection (2) Article 299 is to continue that if the abortion is guilty of an outside party (not the mother who is pregnant) and the act was done for economic purposes, as a livelihood, then the sentence can be added a third sentence in paragraph (1) he is on.

If during this act was done as a livelihood, then it can be revoked her right to make such livelihoods. Then in Article 346 says that a woman who deliberately meyuruh an abortion or other person to do so is punishable by imprisonment of four years.

In Article 347 paragraph (1) stated that the pregnancy to abort or kill a woman without her consent is punishable by a maximum of 12 years in prison, and the next paragraph (2) indicate if the abortion is resulting in loss of life of women that contain it, then the offender is punishable by imprisonment of 15 years.

In Article 348 paragraph (1) mentioned that people who intentionally abort the womb of a woman over the woman's consent is punishable by a maximum of 15 years in prison, and paragraph (2) resume, if the action was causing her death, the offender is punishable by at least maximum 17 years in prison. Thus, the act of abortion in Indonesia, including a crime punishable by a clear and unequivocal.

Conclusion
It has been clear to us there is no basis for the design of the formation of the legalization of abortion law because it conflicts with the values of Pancasila, Religion and Law in force. Legalization of abortion will further encourage promiscuity in society.

One need not be married to have sex. While the release of the responsibility of pregnancy can be solved by abortion. While it is still a lot happening banned abortion, what if it is legalized? Legalization would result in people no longer afraid to have sex before marriage, prostitution, because if women only come to the doctor or midwife give birth to abort, with the condition the doctor or midwife to freely provide the benchmark price is very high in an abortion.

If per day who had an abortion 7 s / d to 8 people and once the price of Rp abortion. 4.000.000, -, means that in one day the doctor or midwife can reap a profit of Rp. 32 million, -. If the legalkan it is more negative impact on growth and development of adolescents, the legalization of no benefit to society and contrary to the values of Pancasila and Religion, if not contrary to accepted / established rules.

The most important fact is how teens can put him as a teenager who is good and right in accordance with the demands of religion and norms prevailing in the community and the required participation of parents in caring behavior in his daily life, providing religious education, sex education true. Therefore this problem is the task of all elements of the nation without exception, to be a priority in handling in order to prevent deaths due to abortion.

Pronounce gerund

Gerund adalah kata kerja yang berakhiran -ing yang berfungsi sebagai kata benda. Gerunds mempunyai bentuk yang sama dengan Participles, yaitu sama-sama berakhiran -ing, namun berbeda fungsi. Untuk Participles kami akan membahasnya secara terpisah.

Di bawah ini akan kami bahas fungsi dari Gerund. Hal yang perlu diingat adalah Gerunds dianggap sebagai Singular dan kata gantinya adalah "it".
KAPAN KITA GUNAKAN GERUNDS?
1. SEBAGAI SUBJEK KALIMAT
Apabila kita ingin meletakkan Kata Kerja di awal kalimat, maka kita harus mengubahnya menjadi V-ing.
Contoh:
• Smoking is bad for your health.
(Merokok itu tidak baik untuk kesehatan)
• Reading is my hobby.
(Membaca adalah hobi saya)
2. SEBAGAI OBJEK KALIMAT
Apabila Kata Kerja berfungsi sebagai Objek Kalimat, maka gunakan juga V-ing (Gerunds).
Contoh:

• I don't like fishing.
(Saya tidak suka memancing)
• I will stop smoking.
(Saya akan berhenti merokok)
3. SEBAGAI SUBJECTIVE COMPLEMENT
Apabila ada kata kerja yang berfungsi sebagai pelengkap pokok kalimat, maka juga harus dibentuk dalam V-ing. Bentuk ini biasanya setelah "to be".
Contoh:
• My hobby is swimming.
(Hobby saya adalah berenang)
• His best talent is teaching.
(Bakat terbaiknya adalah mengajar)
• My favorite activity in leasure time is fishing.
(Aktivitas favorit saya pada waktu senggang adalah memancing)
4. SETELAH NO..!
Pada ungkapan larangan setelah "No" juga harus dibuat dalam bentuk V-ing (Gerunds).
Contoh:
• No spitting!
(Dilarang meludah!)
• No Smoking!
(Dilarang merokok)
5. SETELAH POSSESSIVE ADJECTIVES
Jika ingin meletakkan kata kerja setelah kata kepunyaan seperti my, our, her, dllmaka kata kerjanya juga harus dalam bentuk Gerunds.
Contoh:
• Thank you for your visiting.
(Terima kasih atas kedatangan Anda)
• I am sorry for my coming late.
(Mohon ma'af atas keterlambatan saya)
6. MENYATAKAN PASIF
Untuk menyatakan kalimat pasif, khususnya setelah Kata Kerja Want, Need, require,dan deserve, maka gunakan Gerunds.
Contoh:
• Your house need repainting.
(Rumahmu perlu dicat ulang)
• This car wants repairing.
(Mobil ini mau diperbaiki)
7. SEBAGAI IDIMATIC EXPRESSION
Untuk fungsi ini biasanya berpola "GO + V-ing".
Contoh:
• I went shopping with my mother.
(Saya pergi berbelanja dengan ibu saya)
• She will go camping, won't she?
(Dia akan pergi berkemah, bukan?)
8. SETELAH KATA DEPAN (PREPOSITIONS)
Apabila ada kata kerja yang berada setelah kata depan, maka harus dibentuk dalam Gerunds.
Contoh:
• Before leaving, I locked the door.
(Sebelum pergi, saya mengunci pintu rumah)
• He goes out without saying anything.
(Dia keluar tanpa mengucapkan sepattah kata pun)
9. SETELAH KATA KERJA TERTENTU
Apabila ada kata kerja setelah kata kerja di bawah ini, maka kata kerja yang kedua harus dalam bentuk Gerunds.
Admit, discuss, enjoy, forget, remember, finish, stop, avoid, dll
Contoh:
• My father enjoy swimming very much.
(Ayah saya suka sekali berenang)
• Mary has finished discussing about Africa and its people.
(Mary sudah selesai mendiskusikan tentang Africa dan orang-orangnya)
10. SEBAGAI PELENGKAP IDIOM
Apabila ada kata kerja yang berada setelah idiom di bawah ini, maka juga harus dalam bentuk Gerunds.
Cant't help, feel like, can't stand, look like, don't mind, it's wort, it's no good, it's no use, dll
Contoh:
• I think it's no use trying it again.
(Saya rasa tidak ada gunanya untuk mencobanya lagi)
• I can't stand meeting the Queen.
(Saya sudah tidak tahan lagi untuk berjumpa dengan sang Ratu)

Direct Speech (Kalimat Langsung) & Indirect Speech (Kalimat Tak Langsung)

Direct Speech (Kalimat Langsung) ialah kata-kata kalimat yang diucapkan langsung oleh si pembicara.
Indirect Speech (Kalimat Tak Langsung) ialah kalimat yang diucapkan untuk melaporkan kata-katansi pembicara kepada orang lain. Jadi, Indirect Speech (Reported Speech) digunakan bila kita ingin melaporkan kata-kata seseorang kepada orang lain secara tak langsung.

Direct & Indirect Speech terdiri dari 3 jenis yaitu :
I. Statement (pernyataan)
II. Command (perintah)
III. Question (pertanyaan)
Perubahan-perubahan yang perlu dari Direct ke Indirect Speech :
1. To be & Auxiliary Verbs
Direct Indirect
Am/is/are - was/were
Shall/will - should/would
Can - could
May - might
2. Time & Place (keterangan waktu & tempat)
Direct Indirect
now - then
tomorrow - the following day
next week - the following week
tonight - that night
today - that day
yesterday - the day before
3. Tenses
Direct Indirect
Simple present - simple past
Present continous - past continous
Present perfect continous - past perfect continous
Simple future - past future
I. STATEMENT
Dalam Indirect Statement kita menggunakan kata that (bahwa) sebagai penghubung antara kalimat pengantar (introduce phrase) dan kata-kata yang dilaporkan (reported words). Kalimat-kalimat pengantar dalam indirect statement ialah :

He said
He said to me that + reported words
He told me

e.g - Mary told her friends “I have been to Bali twice.”
- Mary told her friends that she had been to Bali twice.

- Father said “I am going out of town tomorrow”
- Father said that he was going out of town the following day.
Apabila kalimat pengantarnya dalam bentuk Simple Present Tense, maka kalimat yang dilaporkan tidak mengalami perubahan.
e.g - John says “I will go to Bandung tomorrow”
- John says that he will go to Bandung tomorrow

- Mary says “I have seen that film”
- Mary says that she has seen that film.
II. COMMAND
Command dibagi dalam 2 (dua) bagian yaitu :
1. Positive Command
Dalam perintah positif kita tambahkan to di depan kalimat perintahnya, sebagai penghubung antara kalimat pengantar dan perintah yang dilaporkan. Kalimat-kalimat pengantar dalam jenis ini ialah :
to + infinitive
He asked me
He told me
e.g - He asked me “Open your book”
- He asked me to open my book.

- Mary told me “Stop talking to Jane”
- Mary told me to stop talking to Jane.
2. Negative Command
Dalam perintah negatif kita tambahkan not to di depan perintah yang dilaporkan.

e.g - Mary told John “Don’t wait for me”
- Mary told John not to wait for her.

- I told him “Don’t mention it to anyone”
- I told him not to mention it to anyone.

III. QUESTION
Bila pertanyaan langsung (direct question) menggunakan kata-kata tanya seperti ; Where, When, Why, What, Who, How, dll, maka kata-kata tersebut digunakan sebagai penghubung dalam reported Speech. Pertanyaan yang dilaporkan berubaha menjadi bentuk positif. Kalimat pengantarnya ialah :
Positif Form
He asked me where
When etc.
e.g - The man asked me : “Where do you live ?”
- The man asked me where I lived.

- John asked Mary : “Why do you get angry with me ?”
- John asked Mary why she got angry with him.
Bila pertanyaan langsung tidak menggunakan kata-kata tanya, dan hanya merupakan pertanyaan dalam bentuk “Yes & No Question”, maka kita menggunakan kata-kata if, whether (jika, apakah) sebagai penghubung antara kalimat pengantar dan pertanyaan yang dilaporkan.


e.g - The boy asked John : “Does Mary live near here?”
- The boy asked John if Mary lived near there.

- The teacher asked her : “Have you finish your homework ?”
- The teacher asked her if he had finished her homework.
IV. REPORTED SPEECH / MIXED TYPE (Jenis Gabungan)
Bila pertanyaan dan pernyataan digabung dalam Reported Speech maka kita menggunakan kata as (karena) sebagai penghubung pada bagian kalimat pernyataan yang dilaporkan. Dalam hal ini kalimat pernyataan tersebut dilaporkan kemudian. Perhatikanlah contoh-contoh berikut ini :
e.g - She asked me :”What is the time ?”, my watch has stopped.
- She asked me what the time was as her watch had stopped.

- Ira asked John :”what is the matter with you ?”, You don’t look well.
- Mary asked John what the matter was with him as he didn’t look well.
Bila dalam pertanyaan langsung disertai dengan jawaban Yes dan No, maka kita menggunakan kata but sebagai penghubung untuk jawaban No dan kataand sebagai penghubung untuk jawaban Yes.
e.g - He asked me :”Will you go out wiith me ?” No, I won’t.
- He asked me if I would go out with him but I said I wouldn’t.

- Mother asked John :”Have you had lunch ?” No, I haven’t.
- Mother asked John if he had had lunch but he said he hadn’t.
Direct & Indirect with Auxiliaries
Perhatikan perubahan-perubahan yang perlu dari Auxiliaries
Direct Indirect
Was/were - had been
can - could
may - might
must & have to - had to
must not - wasn’t to/musn’t
needn’t - didn’t have to

e.g - Mary said :” I was sick yesterday.”
- Mary said that she had been sick the day before.

- The man asked me :” Can you speak English ?”
- The man asked me if I could speak English.